March 21, 2011

Your Questions About Home Remedies For Constipation In Children

Chris asks…

Is there a home remedy for constipation of a child?

My 6 year old son has trouble using the restroom sometimes. Some weeks he'll go 2,3 & 4 days without being able to have a bowl movement and then when he finally does go he usually strains and it's larger than normal for his age. I know he's a growing child, but this is ridiculous. I'm wondering if there's an easy remedy. I hate strong over-the-counter laxatives because those can cause so many other problems. Can I make him like herbal peppermint tea? Or mix syrup or honey in a cup of water. I need some ideas, please. The doctor says there's nothing wrong with him, but I don't like how he has so much trouble just using the restroom. He says it gets so difficult that he doesn't want to try #2 when he's at school. That part I know can't be good on a young boy. Thank you for any helpful advice or tips

admin answers:

This could have been me talking about my son!

He used to "go" only every 4 or 5 days, and it hurt him when he did go, and we thought we were doing things right by giving him high fibre foods, but unless we also gave him lots of liquid at the same time, we seemed to make it worse.

Your son does need high fibre foods, but he also needs something like Prune Juice (made into a cocktail with ginger ale!) a couple of times a day to get him going, then give him foods that keep him going each day – whole grain breads, whole grain pasta, brown rice, fresh vegetables and fruits – all taken with lots of liquids.

Once he has "been", give him the prune juice each day, until he gets in a habit of going and it doesn't hurt him any more. Then back off with the juice, keeping the high fibre foods and extra liquids.

I just saw a commercial for a fibre that dissolves that you can add to drinks – it dissolves completely, so that might be something that you could add to juices and water for him.

I don't think this is a simple, one answer kind of problem, you may have to approach this in several ways, but what you really want is for him to be able to go daily without discomfort and to do that you may have to try several things.

If he has impacted stool in his bowels, you may have to use a Glycerin suppository – they are small and gentle and you put them "up there" and get your child to wait for a few minutes. The Glycerin melts and seems to soften things and also lubricate the passages so it is easier to go.

Good Luck!

Ken asks…

For those who are married with children, did you have an issue with your parents or inlaws?

Doing things or giving your child things without your permission?

We are expecting our first child. This will be my inlaw's first biological grandchild. They are extremely excited. It's not my father inlaw I'm worried about. It's my mother inlaw. She's a nice person in general but she is a control freak. I have watched her in action with her 10 year old granddaughter (by her adopted son). She has had a lot of influence on that child's life. Her parents haven't been together for many years. I honestly think she feels sorry for her and the way she thinks she's showing her love is by letting her misbehave, talk back and get away with highway robbery.

My mother inlaw is already worried that I won't let my baby spend the night with them when he's born. That's a no brainer. Unless it's some unusual circumstance that can't be prevented (single parent who needs daycare), why in the world would I allow a newborn baby to stay anywhere overnight? Why would she even be worried about that at this point. She lives an hour away.

I'm also concerned about her doing things as she sees fit. For example, feeding him solids at an early age as she did my husband. Using weird home remedies for teething, constipation, crying, etc. It seems that all grandparents or older people in general tend to think that because you have never had a child before they know what's best. In some cases that's probably correct, but not in all cases. When in doubt I will ask, but otherwise my husband and I will be making the decisions regarding our baby.

I am also worried about my mother as well. She doesn't live in the same state, but spends 6-8 months out of the year here helping take care of my grandmother who lives 8-10 minutes away. She is also one to take matters into her own hands, so I can easily see this happening with her to. You may think it's as simple as telling them not to do it … but we're dealing with two older women (my mother inlaw is 65 and my mother is 57). I could see them sneaking behind my back and doing things. If I say something I could see both of them being very offended.

Has anybody dealt with this?

admin answers:

A control freak that lets children misbehave…huh?

Anyways – remember you are the parent – not her! You have the control. You said she lives an hour away so how can she do anything to your child?

Listen, you will have to grow a set of balls and be prepared to tell your mom/mil NO. If they don't comply – they never get left alone with your child. Again – you are in control…

It will work out…everybody finds a way. Don't stress about it too much!

Charles asks…

4.5 yr old girl with constipation help!!! Question about remedies?

I have a 4 and a half year old sister who I just discovered has constipation sadly. I went and bought some children's suppositories and stool softener tried to give them to her but she won't let me what makes it worse is that every few minutes when she goes to poop she cries because it hurts. Plus I bought some root beer flavored drinking laxative which seemed good until i figuresd out that she doesnt like root beer. Im just stressed an out and cant wait for my parents to get home tomarrow so they can deal with this furthuer. In the mean time can sometime tell me a good way to let her give them to her or at least make it easier to adminaster them thanks a lot for everyones support.

admin answers:

Since you're the only one that is home. Take charge! Make her lay down and behave! She needs relief. It is what's best for her. The children's suppositories is the best route. It works quick and there are no harsh side effects like cramping or having many frequent bowel movements. Which she could have to deal with if you give her a laxative.

The children's glycerin suppositories is what has always worked for my daughter. When juice and adding more veg/fruits to her diet did not work to solve the issue. We always use Fleet's brand.

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